If You Can't Control Yourself, You Can't Control The World

Everything’s about technologies these days. From smart phones, androids to high class gadgets like i-pad, i-pod and a few other things that people use to know it as just fruits. Kids during my days use to play just gasing, pokemon cards, lawan pemadam, tamiya etc. You can consider someone rich enough if he has a mobile phone. Friendship and even relationships within the family gets a lot dull. We tend to fill our leisure times indoors rather than going out playing football or futsal or any other outdoor activities.

Social networks being used as a platform to project or voice out our frustrations, opinions, disappointment and all other kind of feelings to the world. Regretfully, some of us choose the wrong choice of words/actions that we later feel very bad about. Some cursing, provocations, insult that could’ve hurt others in which unintentionally happen due to the heat of the moment. Some of us might’ve even accidentally told the whole world something that we, in a normal state of mind, would not have done so. When we regain our consciousness and wished we could change what we just did/said, there’s no point in crying over spilt milk anymore is there?


Perhaps we shouldn’t have used internet as a place to voice out our expressions in the first place should we? Why should we when first, the whole world would know about something that’s suppose to be private and confidential. Second, why should we tell or in some case complain our problems, disappointments, frustrations to those who can’t understand and some who won’t even care when we could always tell it to He who could help us. Someone once told me that,

“In times of test, family is the best”

and he also said,

“If you have a broken heart, friends make the best glue”

“Apabila hamba-hambaKu bertanya kepadamu (Muhammad) tentang Aku, maka sesungguhnya Aku hamper. Aku memperkenankan permohonan orang yang meminta jika dia meminta kepadaKu. Maka hendaklah mereka menyahut seruanKu serta beriman kepadaKu supaya mereka sentiasa berada dalam kebenaran”

Al-Baqarah : 186