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I’m not the best person to talk about what I’m going to talk about and believe me, some of you might think that I’m a judgemental person. With all due respect, I have no intentions to hurt or judge anyone as I have no right to judge others. What I’ll be writing is just a piece of my mind. All of you have the right to accept or condemn it.

Ok, I don’t really know how to say this so I might as well just go straight to the point. I’m actually fed up with some girls out there who proudly show off part of their bodies which they shouldn’t have. I’m not trying to be sexist you know but I just can’t stand it anymore. These girls just don’t feel like they should ‘wear more’. I don’t really mind about non-Muslim girls but I truly disagree with some or should I say most Muslimah who feel free to expose their aurat in public. Don’t they feel ashamed? Where are their dignities? Where do they put His commandments in their priority?

Some of those girls might say, “It’s my body. What the hell does that have to do with you men?” Are you kidding me? Of course it has something to do with us. You think we men won’t stare at you when you show em off? We might be able to ignore one or two of you but three, five, ten, twenty, a bunch of you? Do you expect us to walk with are eyes closed? Plus we are men and it’s normal for us to be attracted to girls. Trust me girls, most of us who resist to look at you for the first time might won’t be strong enough to resist in on the 2^nd occasion. Don’t worry girls. I’m fully aware that I’m not good or pious whatsoever. True, I don’t wear serban or jubah as my daily clothe but I don’t think that should stop me from voicing this out. Do you want to be the reason for us to commit fornication? Think carefully, would any raper even think about raping a girl who covers herself properly? Even if they do, do you really think that He won’t protect those girls who dresses to please Him?

A muslimah should cover themselves more. If you really are beautiful then why do you have to show them? A women’s beauty shouldn’t be exposed, a women’s beauty should be preserved so that it won’t be spoiled by men with bad intentions. Plus, you’re beauty is for your future husband who’ll be there for you when you need him, who’ll guide you when you’re lost, who’ll always love you even when you get old and fat not for some stranger who stalks you when you walk, who ignores you when you’re not beautiful anymore.

Speaking of husband, you guys don’t think that you’re safe u know. Remember, when you marry a girl you’re fully responsible of her and your kids. Yes, marriage can save you from adultery but be aware that if you fail to guide your family to heaven they might as well drag you ‘somewhere else’. Plus, even if those girls expose their aurat in public, we’ll still get our ‘share’ if we don’t resist staring at them.

P/S:Sorry for any hard feelings

Rahmat menjadi wanita Islam(copied from i don’t remember where)

1. Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 orang wali.*

2. Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 lelaki soleh.*

3. Seorang wanita yang jahat adalah lebih buruk daripada 1,000 lelaki yang jahat.*

4. 2 rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.*

5. Wanita yang memberi minum susu kepada anaknya daripada badannya(susu* badan) akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yang diberikannya. *

6. Wanita yang melayan dengan baik suami yang pulang ke rumah di dalam keadaan letih akan mendapat pahala jihad.

7. Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.

8. Wanita yang melihat suaminya dengan kasih sayang dan suami yang melihat isterinya dengan kasih sayang akan dipandang Allah dengan penuh rahmat.

9. Wanita yang menyebabkan suaminya keluar dan berjuang ke jalan Allah dan kemudian menjaga adab rumahtangganya akan masuk syurga 500 tahun lebih awal daripada suaminya, akan menjadi ketua 70,000 maalaikat dan bidadari dan wanita itu akan dimandikan di dalam syurga, dan menunggu suaminya dengan menunggang kuda yang dibuat daripada yakut. *

10. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat.

11. Wanita yang memerah susu binatang dengan "bismillah" akan didoakan oleh binatang itu dengan doa keberkatan.

12. Wanita yang menguli tepung gandum dengan bismillah", Allah akan berkatkan rezekinya.

13. Wanita yang menyapu lantai dengan berzikir akan mendapat pahala seperti meyapu lantai di baitullah.

14. Wanita yang menjaga solat, puasa dan taat pada suami, Allahakan mengizinkannya untuk memasuki syurga dari mana-mana pintu yang dia suka.

15. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada siang hari.

16 Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari.

17. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.

18. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid.

19. Jika wanita melayan suami tanpa khianat akan mendapat pahala 12 tahun solat.

20. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun), maka maalaikat-maalaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya.

21. Jika wanita memberi susu badannya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.

22. Jika wanita memicit suami tanpa disuruh akan mendapat pahala 7* tola emas dan jika wanita memicit suami bila disuruh akan mendapat pahala tola perak.

23. Wanita yang meniggal dunia dengan keredhaan suaminya akan memasuki syurga.

24. Jika suami mengajarkan isterinya satu masalah akan mendapat * pahala*80* tahun ibadat.*

25. Semua orang akan dipanggil untuk melihat wajah Allah di akhirat, tetapi Allah akan datang sendiri kepada wanita yang memberati auratnya iaitu memakai purdah di dunia ini dengan istiqamah. * Pandangan : Amatlah mudah bagi seorang wanita untuk menjejak Syurga.* Namun begitu mengapa terlalu ramai yang masih hidup dalam kejahilan? Sang suami pula perlu ingat, tidak kamu jejaki syurga sebelum keluarga kamu menjejak syurga. Jangan ingat hendak kahwin empat jika yang satu belum terbela. Yang belum kahwin tu ingat, kamu terdedah kepada kemungkaran. Iman akan dicabar sehebat-hebatnya ketika ini. Pilih lah Syurga dan bukannya Neraka. Siapa tahu, hari ini kita tak sampai ke rumah sebab dipertengahan jalan kita bertemu Izrail. Siapa tahu, hari ini hari terakhir kita berjumpa pasangan kita sebab dipertengahan jalan, dia berjumpa Izrail. Bagaimana rasanya ketika berjumpa Izrail? Untuk yang beriman, macam 700 pedang yang tajam mencucuk kamu dalam semua arah. Yang tak beriman, bayangkan pisau potong daging kat pasar tu yang tumpul. Pisau tu menetak kepala kita macam mana orang memecahkan tempurung kelapa. Kepala kita di kopak dua, dipisahkan dengan kasarnya, ketika kita masih hidup. Lepas tu di kapak-kapak kan kepala kita macam tembikai. Itu baru bab kepala. Belum masuk tangan, kaki, badan,etc... . Hadis nabi mengenai wanita. Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki.Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda, "Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia". Wallahua'lam. .

Wake Me Up When September Ends

Summer has come and passed and winter is just around the corner. It’s been more than two months since I landed my feet on Malaysia after my first year in Egypt. Quite a long holiday I had and should’ve been useful to me. Well I chose the right word by saying ‘should’ve’ cause I don’t think it did. Not that I wasted 100 % of my time but I just don’t think I made the best out of it. Apart from the holy month, it’s not too harsh if I say I’ve been useless. I barely helped (but I still did) my mother with some house chores or my father. Not so bad due to the fact that I’m a son not a daughter but still, what good do I do if I came back home and not help them.

Think that’s bad enough? Think again mate. Not just did I rarely exercised, I also gained ‘some’ weight! Don’t worry how much, it’s just a figure but it just shows how lazy I was. A few days ago I played futsal and about 20 minutes of playing was enough for me to ‘deliver the baby’. Luckily nothing came out of my mouth though but the next few games I was back in shape brother. Give me another two hours and I’ll play like Steven Gerrard(‘s granny). Plus, yesterday (25/9/2010) I played football and I mean FOOTBALL. You know that game with 11 players each team, a referee and two linesmen? Yeah, that football. After almost two years I didn’t touch green grass, finally I had that chance again with my eldest brother and his ex-schoolmates. Frustratingly though that my weight didn’t change a bit. Maybe those fats were already turned into muscles so it replaced the weight of the fat.

Enough of my holiday stories. Wake me up when September ends would ya? Coz that means I’m just a week away from flying back to Egypt. Mixed emotion is what I could say about what I feel. Anyhow, class has already started last Saturday and I’m still in Malaysia. I’m a bit worried though that I might not be able to catch up with what I’ll miss. Hopefully my friends can teach me what they’ve learned while I’m still smelling Proton Saga’s smoke. People say that second year’s going to be tougher. Give me a break. I couldn’t even finish revising Physiology of Cardiovascular System in more than two months. So, now I’m really worried (at least I do feel worried though I’m still wasting my time doing something else) about the prospect of not being able to get mumtaz this year. I don’t wanna disappoint my parents for the second time running especially not my father. “No sweat mate, you’ll do fine.” *ignore me, I’m talking to myself*

Actually, if I get credit in my exam it is already good enough. Getting mumtaz is just a morale booster. What matters most is when I do become a doctor coz I’m not gonna treat my patients with my exam results, I’ll treat them based on what I’ve learned. So, getting maqbul(credit) and understanding well what we’ve learned is better than getting mumtaz but just by memorizing notes instead of truly understanding what we’ve learned. You’re not gonna do any kind of surgery while referring to the notes you memorized before exams would ya? You have to do it by understanding well what your patient’s problem actually is coz some things aren’t written in books. Am I not right?

So, hopefully this year would be better than last year. Less playing, less time wasting, less ‘online’ing but more studying. And let’s not forget that in the end, He decides everything so make sure we don’t forget Him. Not just for the sake of exam only but for the sake of our life, our family’s, friends’ and those we loves’ here and hereafter. May The Only One be pleased with us.

~Ya Allah, mumtaz untuk Muaz dan rakan-rakannya. Ameen~

I'm Talking To Myself but I Don't Mind You Reading

Testing keyboard 1, 2, 3. Cobaan papan kekunci satu dua. It’s been a while (a long while actually) since the last time I wrote something on this blog. Not that I don’t have anything to talk about but I can’t find any reason why I should tell others about it. Sharing problems doesn’t necessarily lessen the burden you’re carrying coz some people just won’t understand and some of them don’t even care. I did write 2 or 3 ‘something’ but then I decided to delete it. I don’t know why but I just felt that posting it wasn’t the best decision.

In this modern day, internet and cell phones are two most popular things among people especially teenagers. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not gonna write an essay about advantages and disadvantages of internet whatsoever. Besides, if I was told to do so, 2 paragraphs would already be an incredible achievement for me. From what I could see is that most of us have different personalities between ourselves in the outside world and us on the internet. Some shy, mute and nerdy kid in the outside world could be a sweet-mouthed Romeo on the internet, a devil could act like an angel on the internet and so on. I’m not referring this specifically to anyone (how could I when sometimes I feel like I’m referring this to myself). Is that some kind of hypocrisy? Yes (and no) I guess.

Well that may not be a problem coz everyone has their own reason to be so. Maybe the shy, mute and nerdy kid feels that only through the internet he/she could be friends with others coz in the outside world, people make them feel like they’re a statue of poverty. Plus, some guys who rarely talk to gurlz suddenly become so friendly or near-to-Casanova kind of person coz when he chats with gurlz on the internet he doesn’t have to feel like someone with no manners just because he doesn’t wanna look into some gurl’s eyes while talking to her. Maybe he rarely talk to gurlz in the outside world because he’ll have to look at their faces if he do so. Maybe. But undeniably there are some bunch of losers who are furiously shy in the outside world but pathetically shameless on the net.

That still might not be a problem. But what about some not-so-good people who act like they’re perfect. Again I’m stressing out that I’m not referring this specifically to anyone but there are some people out there (or maybe me myself or some of you who are reading this) that act so noble on the net. Facebook status: “Alhamdulillah,  Ramadhan tahun ni aku tiap2 malam bangun tahajud” or “Sepanjang bulan Ramadhan aku tak online facebook langsung”. Why is it necessary for us to post that kind of status on facebook or whatever kind of social websites? If we know, He knows and ‘both of them’ know, isn’t that enough? Why do we have to announce it and face the risk of doing all those good deeds for nothing?

Even worse, some of us post quite a number of hadiths in our blog. Agreed, posting hadiths on our blog as a trusted proof of some of the points we’re trying to stress out is good. But do we really know whether the hadith is sahih or not? Or do we simply google them without making any research? Do we know how terrible it is to spread something that is not from him (PBUH) yet claiming it is from him? Some people might not agree with what I'm trying to say. Well, I may be wrong coz i'm not a perfect person. So, you could refer to someone who knows better than me. In fact, you should have referred earlier before you posted those hadiths.

Sometimes it is just better to be quiet rather than talking nonsense or spreading lies or saying something that might hurt others or something that we don’t even know whether it is true or not. Think before you choose your words. Words can kill. Bear this in mind, you can never please everyone even if you try. But if u please Him, He’ll make sure everyone are pleased with you. And we don't have to act good because He knows very well what kind of person we really are.